{"id":7014,"date":"2019-06-23T20:35:46","date_gmt":"2019-06-23T20:35:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/?p=7014"},"modified":"2019-09-23T15:00:05","modified_gmt":"2019-09-23T15:00:05","slug":"grief-counselor-a-poem-by-brian-rihlmann","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/grief-counselor-a-poem-by-brian-rihlmann\/","title":{"rendered":"GRIEF COUNSELOR . A Poem by Brian Rihlmann"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nWe sat at the bar<br \/>\nsucking back beers<br \/>\nin that smoky roadhouse,<br \/>\nand you went on about it,<br \/>\nand finally said,<br \/>\n\u201cI mean, where is he?<br \/>\nWhere did he go?\u201d<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nYour father, gone,<br \/>\nthree months ago<br \/>\nin a freak accident,<br \/>\nhis pickup winding up<br \/>\non its roof in a ditch<br \/>\nfor no apparent reason.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nYou looked at me,<br \/>\nand my lame answer<br \/>\nlimped out,<br \/>\n\u201cI believe that<br \/>\nwhen you\u2019re gone,<br \/>\nyou\u2019re gone.\u201d<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nSpoken like a good<br \/>\nand faithful atheist.<br \/>\nMy truth telling<br \/>\na matter of principle.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nYou stared at me, nodding<br \/>\nand biting your quivering lip,<br \/>\nAdam\u2019s apple working<br \/>\nas you tried swallowing<br \/>\nthe bitter fruit<br \/>\nof my honesty.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nI saw it, and quickly said,<br \/>\n\u201cBut what the hell do I know?\u201d<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nAnd some years later,<br \/>\nI remember you<br \/>\nangrily saying<br \/>\nthat when we die<br \/>\nwe just rot in the ground,<br \/>\nand I winced<br \/>\nat how you spit<br \/>\nthose words out,<br \/>\nand wished I\u2019d lied<br \/>\nway back then.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/grief-counselor-a-poem-by-brian-rihlmann\/5ab3e8ae-4058-4d80-8ca1-76c0af82ee8e\/#main\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7015\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/5AB3E8AE-4058-4D80-8CA1-76C0AF82EE8E-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-7015\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/5AB3E8AE-4058-4D80-8CA1-76C0AF82EE8E-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/5AB3E8AE-4058-4D80-8CA1-76C0AF82EE8E-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/5AB3E8AE-4058-4D80-8CA1-76C0AF82EE8E-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/5AB3E8AE-4058-4D80-8CA1-76C0AF82EE8E.jpeg 960w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nBrian Rihlmann was born in NJ, and currently lives in Reno, NV. He writes mostly semi autobiographical, confessional free verse. Folk poetry&#8230;for folks. He has been published in Constellate Magazine, Poppy Road Review, Cajun Mutt Press, The Rye Whiskey Review and has an upcoming piece in The American Journal Of Poetry<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nRobin Ouzman Hislop is Editor of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\">Poetry Life and Times<\/a> ; his publications include<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Babble-Souk-Robin-Ouzman-Hislop\/dp\/1329636953\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1506012222&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=All+the+Babble+of+the+Souk\"><em>All the Babble of the Souk<\/em> <\/a>, <em>Cartoon Molecules<\/em> and <em>Next Arrivals<\/em>, collected poems, as well as translation of Guadalupe Grande\u00b4s La llave de niebla, as  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Key-Mist-Guadalupe-Grande\/dp\/1365453006\/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1506012852&amp;sr=1-4&amp;keywords=Key+of+Mist\"><em>Key of Mist<\/em> <\/a> and the recently published <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lulu.com\/shop\/carmen-crespo\/tesserae\/paperback\/product-23327341.html\"><em>Tesserae<\/em> <\/a><u> <\/u>, a translation of Carmen Crespo\u00b4s Teselas.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\nYou may visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aquillrelle.com\/authorrobin.htm\">Aquillrelle.com\/Author Robin Ouzman Hislop <\/a>about author.  See Robin performing his work <a href=\"https:\/\/www.artvilla.com\/plt\/robin-hislop-reads-at-university-of-leeds-his-poetry-and-translations-video-performance\">Performance (University of Leeds)<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-share-icons\" data-lg-action=\"show\" data-sm-action=\"show\" data-sm-width=\"768\"><h3>Share and Enjoy !<\/h3><div class=\"wpsr-si-inner\"><div class=\"wpsr-counter wpsrc-sz-40px\" style=\"color:#000\"><span class=\"scount\" data-wpsrs=\"\" data-wpsrs-svcs=\"pinterest,print,pdf,twitter\"><i class=\"fa fa-share-alt\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/span><small class=\"stext\">Shares<\/small><\/div><div class=\"socializer sr-popup sr-count-1 sr-40px sr-pad\"><span class=\"sr-pinterest\"><a data-pin-custom=\"true\" data-id=\"pinterest\" style=\"color:#ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=&amp;media=&amp;description=\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Submit this to Pinterest\"><i class=\"fab fa-pinterest\"><\/i><span class=\"ctext\" data-wpsrs=\"\" data-wpsrs-svcs=\"pinterest\"><\/span><\/a><\/span>\n<span class=\"sr-print\"><a data-id=\"print\" style=\"color:#ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.printfriendly.com\/print?url=\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Print this article \"><i class=\"fa fa-print\"><\/i><\/a><\/span>\n<span class=\"sr-pdf\"><a data-id=\"pdf\" style=\"color:#ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.printfriendly.com\/print?url=\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Convert to PDF\"><i class=\"fa fa-file-pdf\"><\/i><\/a><\/span>\n<span class=\"sr-twitter\"><a data-id=\"twitter\" style=\"color:#ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=%20-%20%20\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Tweet this !\"><i class=\"fab fa-twitter\"><\/i><\/a><\/span>\n<span class=\"sr-share-menu\"><a href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More share links\" style=\"color:#ffffff;\" data-metadata=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;excerpt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;image&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;short-url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;rss-url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.artvilla.com\\\/plt\\\/feed\\\/&quot;,&quot;comments-section&quot;:&quot;comments&quot;,&quot;raw-url&quot;:null,&quot;twitter-username&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;fb-app-id&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;fb-app-secret&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\"><i class=\"fa fa-plus\"><\/i><\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wp-socializer wpsr-share-icons\" data-lg-action=\"show\" data-sm-action=\"show\" data-sm-width=\"768\"><div class=\"wpsr-si-inner\"><div class=\"socializer sr-popup sr-32px sr-pad\"><span class=\"sr-facebook\"><a data-id=\"facebook\" style=\"background-color:#1e73be;color:#8224e3;\" rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share.php?u=\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share this on Facebook\"><i class=\"fab fa-facebook-f\"><\/i><\/a><\/span>\n<span class=\"sr-share-menu\"><a href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More share links\" style=\"background-color:#1e73be;color:#8224e3;\" data-metadata=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;excerpt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;image&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;short-url&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;rss-url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.artvilla.com\\\/plt\\\/feed\\\/&quot;,&quot;comments-section&quot;:&quot;comments&quot;,&quot;raw-url&quot;:null,&quot;twitter-username&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;fb-app-id&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;fb-app-secret&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\"><i class=\"fa fa-plus\"><\/i><\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; We sat at the bar sucking back beers in that smoky roadhouse, and you went on about it, and finally said, \u201cI mean, where is he? 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